Ten Things I have to do in life before ending up in a graveyard happily!!!

Yes, you heard it right! I wanna end up to my graveyard smiling with a bunch of white flowers, btw! I prefer Lillies :P. After all its not a everyday task to end up in a graveyard . And its full n final full stop to your life. So, why not do it in a better way?? Be happy and go.... :)

Pondering upon what I really want from my life, my chemistry teacher pulled the brakes on my thoughts and said "Class Dismissed", Naah he doesn't sound like a army officer! And while walking back back to my place and totally forgetting my old wants from life, I managed to decide upon what will really make me happy doing in my life and what will really make me smiling and ending up to my graveyard.

1. Big NO to be a scholar!

2. NO to arranged relationships, which includes both "zabardasti friendship and marriage".

3.I don't want to be fat ever, neither skinny.

4. No to the fat cheese cake kept in front of me!!! "most difficult" :/

5. And neither have a pet whose average year of living is 10-15 years. I want a pet who lives as long I live. Yes!! I want a turtle :D

Ahhh!!! Yes, these things gonna make smile at the end of life. But wait! I need to think about 10 things I wanna do, or rather 'have' to do before ......... am not writing those words again :P

So, on a serious note what exactly does it take to make life happy n full. Is it making others happy, or does it mean to satisfy your aspirations? It means none, all you have to do in life is get yourself a mug of coffee on the balcony a chair for your own comfort and a laptop to write and read the imaginary world of peace and happiness. Few things that came up to my mind which is definitely gonna help me happier are:

1. Learn making food which tastes like what my mum cooks. 

It's not being selfish to think about your own taste buds and fulfill their wishes.

2. Write, write and write...... all my life.

Yes, i prefer writing and expressing myself more comfortably than keeping on blabbering in front of a lot of people whose gonna laugh at what I am speaking in-spite the fact that they would still laugh if I kept quite.

3. Own a travel blog. 

I have been to few countries which every Indian family prefers the most due to the availability of Indian food styles over their - Singapore, Malaysia and Dubai. I still starved for 7 days in Malaysia and Singapore since I got sick due to the fishy non-veg kind of smell and got busy to look around the hotness in Dubai! ;) I would love to capture as much possible to take a huge size photo album to my graveyard.

4. Sing Opera.

Not the browser, it's a form of singing to blow of glass panes!! *WHISTLE*

5. Eat Sabudana Vada every evening.

This one is an absolute selfish choice. *GRIN*

6. Learn Drawing. 

Ever since grade 1, its insulting to a bad artist. May it be in pencil strokes or the paint brush strokes I have been terribly horrible at everything related to art. I have to definitely learn this or else it ll stress in down the lane too.

7. Run an NGO.

Time for some social service. Being a feminist, I have always been dis-heartened to everything the cultural and social society does to the chromosomal group XX. I wanna do everything possible for the girls who are killed wither in womb or killed by stabbing their dreams and aspirations.

8. Adopt a daughter. 

This was a secret wish which only few people close to me knows. I would adopt a daughter than having a son. No hard feelings, but I have always wanted a daughter, Naah I want 2 daughters. Just like my sister and mum.

9. Meet Rati and Sanjeev from makeupandbeauty.com

Rati has been someone am greatly inspired from. She is "DIVA" and my role model :)

10. This has to be something important and yes I saved it for my Parents. 

I wanna fly them to Paris, take a bag full of Indian Bengali food and leave them free for few days. I have to do this because every couple needs a break from children. I have realized how annoying it must be listening to all the whims and tantrums of your child and still loving him/her unconditionally. 

Yes that's all I have for the 10 ten things I have to do before I die. They aren't so fancy and imaginary that makes them impossible to do. But, yes simplicity is complicated in itself. So, for fulfilling your simple dreams, free your mind from the complexities and start working on what's your 10 "must-to-do" before going to the graveyard happily. What are your 10 things "must-have-to-do" before dying????