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Monday, 9 July 2012

Love isn't made for everyone......

Love-a feeling of strong personal attachment or an emotion full of kindness, compassion and affection. It is all about commitment, hope, care, understanding and the most important thing we happily do it all. I believe-"Once in love, forever in love". Love makes you sacrifice happily, but is it worth it?

Being at the end of my teenage, I have come across of all the nearby forms of falling into this feeling. Attractions, crushes, the so called serious crush, and finally i fell for someone deeply. He also started liking me. We got to know each other more prominently. Things started improving between us and the world seemed like a beautiful rainbow. And you can guess the history....

Ah! Wait a second, i was kidding! I wanna make a stand on the fact that What happens as a history is not same for every other person. What if the other person is using you for emotionally? What if he just needs you to pamper and take care of him. Being flirty sweetly, questioning you on things which he is sure of to make you blush, the little pussy conversations at night on the phone and the silence breaths. I am sure your heart just skipped a beat. The other half of the story is he makes you fall for him, not because he loves you back. Its because he just needs attention.

On the other hand, you are ready to sacrifice it all, may that be your own self-respect, your sleep which finally results in scary dark spots. Such guys will definitely after they get bored or start getting attention from somewhere else. So whats the use in wasting an important phase of your life on them? God has given us girls a wonderful ability known as "The 6th Sense" from which am sure you know exactly when the guy means what. So stop it from the beginning. Either mention it to them specifically or the best way is to ignore. Love is beautiful as well as dreadful.

Many a times its so harmful that it plays with your life and so with your. family. Family members are the once who loves us the most. No one else can beat them on that. Girls, if you start liking someone at first start expecting immediately. I know expectation breaks relations, but if is really love whatever happens you two will still be together. Everyone isn't lucky enough to experience Love. It comes to only few in the full true form, other are just destroyed by the vision of it. I aint against love, but i would like others to be precautious.

So be aware, because this can be injurious to you. As said "prevention is better than cure". I am not against love, its a wonderful feeling, but be aware because all that glitters isnt gold. Start expecting, stay alert and even though you have no time to think about yourself, take a break from it to give yourself some importance. Afterall if the person really fell for you, don't you think you deserve a bit more care??. Don't get stuck into this black hole till you are sure about it.


Because everyone is not lucky enough to experience the full form of love, they just have a vision of it which can turn out to be dark!!!!

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