When you are low, and nothing seems to work as you want it. You feel like the world is going on exactly in the opposite direction than you want it to be. You finally give up. Isn't it just so easy to give up? Surrendering!
What if you don't have a choice? What if there's no other way out? You can't just always sit back and quit!
What if there are no other options left? What if you just have to face it? Just stand straight , head high towards the storm. You know you can't look away and bend down, because you aren't left with an option......
Well to be more specific let me make it clear with an example most of us are prone to....
" Its a cold winter night, you are preparing before going off to sleep. You have your exam the next day! Highly confident and equally scared though you have done the portion of syllabus properly, you just switch off the lights. Your phone beeps, its a message from one of your classmate informing that ther is another chapter for the exam tomorrow."
I don't think any of you will be able to go off to sleep. Those warm blankets will be selfish enough to pull you closer but you have no choice. You can't give up! You will get back to your books immediately !!!
Another example, exclusively mine!
I generally stop talking to everyone including my sister and my best friends.My existence becomes rare to my everyone including my roomies. I cover up myself. I am on one corner of my bed, snicked to the wall inside my quilt. I don't go near anyone, I don't answer any texts, don't receive any calls including that of my parents. I always cover up my side with the chair and blankets. I like it to be dark, haunted types! I close myself from the rest of the world, also from the sunlight outside. Even a single strand ray of light hurts me. Am so prone to everything at that point of time. And its only me alone lying, just to feel lower than before!!"
And the next thing happens is that I appear like a zombie to my roomies, they are scared somewhat. The lessons to be covered are left. The assignments to be completed are left half done. My friends and family get worried about me(atleast those who care). My blog keeps on missing me and on the other hand I am more depressed due to the darkness as never before. Each of my planning is ruined and finally I regret which leads me into a huge world of grief!
Man!!! locking yourself from the world doesn't work!
You gotta stand and take a deep breath. Start expressing yourself! Start!!! Talk it out with your most trusted friends or your best friend. If they don't listen to you, then just stand in front of the mirror and talk to your own self. And if it still doesn't work!!! Stand under the shower and cry! there is no one to disturb you over there, not even you your ownself, because you can't question yourself for your tears standing under the shower (LOL! that will be hilarious).
And if nothing else works....Write it out! that is what I do, I write and sing to express every kind of emotion. It feels secure as well as am fresh as ever again!
Guys, till the time you don't express yourself and get it out of your system, you will go on torturing your self. I bet, in that little shell you create for yourself just to hide yourself, makes you more vulnerable to the negativity of world! Express..... Sing...... Write......Talk!!! After all we are human beings, not some kind of secret box where we can hide all our problems!!! Be happy! And be the white one in dark :)
What if you don't have a choice? What if there's no other way out? You can't just always sit back and quit!
What if there are no other options left? What if you just have to face it? Just stand straight , head high towards the storm. You know you can't look away and bend down, because you aren't left with an option......
Well to be more specific let me make it clear with an example most of us are prone to....
" Its a cold winter night, you are preparing before going off to sleep. You have your exam the next day! Highly confident and equally scared though you have done the portion of syllabus properly, you just switch off the lights. Your phone beeps, its a message from one of your classmate informing that ther is another chapter for the exam tomorrow."
I don't think any of you will be able to go off to sleep. Those warm blankets will be selfish enough to pull you closer but you have no choice. You can't give up! You will get back to your books immediately !!!
Another example, exclusively mine!
I generally stop talking to everyone including my sister and my best friends.My existence becomes rare to my everyone including my roomies. I cover up myself. I am on one corner of my bed, snicked to the wall inside my quilt. I don't go near anyone, I don't answer any texts, don't receive any calls including that of my parents. I always cover up my side with the chair and blankets. I like it to be dark, haunted types! I close myself from the rest of the world, also from the sunlight outside. Even a single strand ray of light hurts me. Am so prone to everything at that point of time. And its only me alone lying, just to feel lower than before!!"
Man!!! locking yourself from the world doesn't work!
You gotta stand and take a deep breath. Start expressing yourself! Start!!! Talk it out with your most trusted friends or your best friend. If they don't listen to you, then just stand in front of the mirror and talk to your own self. And if it still doesn't work!!! Stand under the shower and cry! there is no one to disturb you over there, not even you your ownself, because you can't question yourself for your tears standing under the shower (LOL! that will be hilarious).
And if nothing else works....Write it out! that is what I do, I write and sing to express every kind of emotion. It feels secure as well as am fresh as ever again!
Completely agree... Never make a hole for your self to hide....it harms you more than anything...
ReplyDeletethats true....thanks for commenting....kindly mention your names too.... would be appreciaed:)
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